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Silence is Golden

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Sure, we know that love is all about trust and so on, but that doesn't mean you bare heart and soul to your significant other. Know when it's best to keep mum. Pass Did your husband's best friend make a pass at you If it was harmless, happened at a drunken, weak moment, let it ride. It's possible he finds you attractive and didn't know what he was talking about when inebriated. If you tell your husband, you will probably break up a deep friendship that has lasted years, and no one will be any happier. Remember though, don't let the friend get away with such behaviour more than once. If he ever gets nasty or makes you uncomfortable, it's time to spill the beans - no matter how deep and old their friendship. You're far more important. In addition, the very fact that he deliberately makes a pass at you again and again shows that he doesn't respect your husband or their friendship. However, if your wife's best friend made a pass at you, let ...

How to Cope with Stress after Break Up

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Stress is an inseparable part of break up and all other ups and downs which take place in life. However, human beings have to move on and learn to smile again after going through incidences like break up. Read on to find some helpful tips for coping with stress after break up. It is not easy to handle when any significant relationship ends. No matter whether you wanted it or not, a committed and long-term relationship can turn your whole world upside down if it breaks up. There are all sorts of upsetting and painful feelings that get triggered. But do not worry. There are things that you can be done so that you come out of this difficult time without much damage. Tips to Cope with Stress after Break Up Stress is an inseparable part of break ups, fights and all ups and downs in life. Read on to find some helpful tips for coping with stress after break up. Divert your Mind The best thing that you can do is to divert your attention and concentrate on your hobbies a...

How to break-up

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Breaking-up is the toughest thing to do. If you are unhappy with your relationship read on to know how to break-up? Two years ago Aditi and Varun had turned their friendship into a romantic relationship and started dating. They enjoyed each other's company a lot. Life seemed beautiful but as time passed Aditi realised that the relationship was full of flaws and it would not work out between them. As Aditi got closet to Varun she realised this is not what she wanted. She kept growing unhappy with the relation and finally decided to end it but did not know how. She was scared about how Varun would react? How would he feel? But she was sure that she wanted to end it. Breaking-up with your partner is the hardest thing to do. Someone has said it rightly that 'It takes a couple of seconds to say hello, but forever to say goodbye.' When a relationship is not worth continuing, it is better to end it than carry complex problems that burden you. It is of no use dragging a relat...

Love and Marriage

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Go together like a horse and carriage or at least, they should. Here's how to keep the spark alive. When the two of you were dating, do you remember how every moment without your other half seemed like foreverNULL When you would wait endlessly on tenterhooks for that phone to ringNULL And how the thought of seeing your love again would make you shake with anticipationNULL Whatever happened to that wonderful courtship period that seemed like it was going to last foreverNULL Here's what happened You got married, children came along, and you took on the responsibility of running a household and a family - Who had the time, or the inclination to indulge in romance? Other issues were given top priority and your love life was delegated to the bedroom, two nights a week -- if you were lucky. Keep the fire burning A great marriage doesn't just happen automatically. Ever look at couples who seem so incredibly in love that they glow when they're together, and wonder...

How to keep your girlfriend happy

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Keeping your girlfriend happy is the key to a successful relationship. Read on and find out how to keep your girlfriend happy. Sameer and Sanya are in a relationship since two and a half years. Lately they have been fighting like cats. Sanya throws a tantrum if Sameer shows up late for a date. Sameer feels jealous when she talks about other guys. If things remain like they are the relationship is surely going to hit the rocks. As time passes and the honeymoon period gets over, couples stop behaving like they did when they first began the relationship. Though it may seem difficult to understand a girl's emotions you can try some tricks to keep her happy. Here are few things a guy can do to keep his girlfriend happy. Be loyal to her This is the most basic and important rule. You would not mind occasional flirting but it could lead to bigger issues. Do not two time her, come what may! The relationship prospers if you are honest. Do not try to chea...

Moving On

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When one partner ends a seemingly wonderful relationship, the other partner is always left deeply hurt. Here's how to deal with the pain of being 'dumped'. One needs to constantly keep working at a marriage to make it successful. There are so many extraneous factors influencing a marriage: in-laws, money problems, child-related arguments, abuse issues and so on. At times even living in a bad marriage or being in a bad relationship seems to be a better option than being without such a relationship. And when one partner decides to end a seemingly wonderful relationship, the other partner is always left dazed, confused, shocked, and deeply, deeply hurt. Here's how to deal with the pain of being 'dumped'. Find support from your close friends and family. This is the time you will hear phases like time is a great healer and don't worry, you will find someone better most often. Don't just dismiss these phases and say You don't know what you are talking ...

Love Is All Around

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It's that time of the year again, when love is in the air and happy couples, florists and Archies store owners are grinning from ear to ear. You may love Valentine's Day or hate it, but you can't ignore it. So, as they say, if you can't beat 'em, you might as well join 'em. Here are some great tips to help you jumpstart the romantic bandwagon. Great Expectations Whatever you do, lay off the pressure. Don't expect your partner to have something elaborate planned for Valentine's Day, and don't push your partner to plan something either. You could give a gentle reminder, but what works even better is if you are upfront and say something like - We haven't been spending enough time together. Why don't we do something special this Valentine's Day, just the two of us. Something Special This doesn't mean a six course meal at the priciest restaurant in town. It could be something as simple as a candlelight dinner at home. And of ...